I love Matt, He's so great to talk to =)
This is a conversation that I had online with him today... It's nothing important though...
mcc x90: did u hear what happened today?
soCCerCChiCKy: she is very unkind and unnessesary to me... no what happened today
mcc x90: well
mcc x90: she was playing saxophone
mcc x90: and i asked her
mcc x90: politely
mcc x90: niceley
soCCerCChiCKy: lol
mcc x90 sarah, could you please play your oboe
mcc x90: everyone can attest to the fact tha tI was extremely polite
mcc x90: and kind
mcc x90: but she like
mcc x90: wigged out
mcc x90: and was upset
mcc x90: and of course
mcc x90: amanda sotto
mcc x90: who was out of the room
mcc x90: comes back
mcc x90: sees her in the pet shop
mcc x90: and comes in and flips out on me
mcc x90: in front of everyone
mcc x90: for being mean to sarah
mcc x90: which i wasnt
mcc x90: she ranted at me for a bit
mcc x90:until...everyone came and told her she was wrong
mcc x90: and that i was rle nice to sarahh
mcc x90: and now everything is ok
mcc x90:idk why sarah got so upset, she mustve been having a abd day
soCCerCChiCKy:sarah hates too many people for the stupidest reasons... i have to tell u what she's been ddoing to me.. but i wont now b/c its hard to type it all haha
mcc x90:lol
mcc x90: ok, well when and if you wanna talk to someone
mcc x90: im here
soCCerCChiCKy: no, she's a bitch to everyone when she doesnt get her day.. and she ALWAYS has bad days... 8 days a week... yes 8 days
mcc x90: lol
soCCerCChiCKy: oh no, i'll tell u how 2 faced she is.. but in person lol
mcc x90: im sure its not that bad
mcc x90: she jsut makes bad decisions sometimes
mcc x90: and i think she regrets them, and thats why she gets so worked up
mcc x90: i dont dislike her for it
mcc x90: i feel bad for her, it obviously makes her unhappy
mcc x90: she does make alot of problems for people though
mcc x90: like when she got aj mad at me at hofstra lol
soCCerCChiCKy:brb phone
mcc x90: i could tell that was gunna get out of hand, i jumped on the fone and handled that right away
mcc x90: and during volleyball
mcc x90: gah
mcc x90:but its ok
mcc x90: she just makes mistakes sometimes
soCCerCChiCKy: trust me, she talks so much shit behind my back.. and she flipped out on me in band yesterday AFTER asking me to go to her house on sat. and was all nice and peachy keen. .... she cursed me out for asking her if what aj said was true about all the hickys on her neck... she says "WTF do you HAVE to know everything? just shut the hell up"
soCCerCChiCKy: mad sometimes??
mcc x90: yeah
mcc x90: well, she probably has alot on her plate
mcc x90: people can act strangely like that when they're unhappy
mcc x90: i dont really think i can blame her
soCCerCChiCKy: and everyone tells me that she doesnt like me and that she never wants to talk to me, BUT she asks me to hang out with her?? and faith said that she says she only likes me sometimes, sorry that's not goig to happen to me
soCCerCChiCKy: why can't u blame her? whats been so wrong?
mcc x90: what do you mean
mcc x90: i dont want to be angry at her
mcc x90: so im not
mcc x90: ;]
mcc x90: i cant be mad at people, it gives me nightmares and insomnia
mcc x90: :P
soCCerCChiCKy: i know.... i mean what's wrong?? you keep saying that she has a lot on her plate... like something terrible just happened
mcc x90: i dont know if anything happened
mcc x90: i didnt hear anything in particular
soCCerCChiCKy: o ok
mcc x90: but i assume shes unhappy about something
mcc x90: because of the way she acts
mcc x90: she doesnt respond to things like mos happy people would
soCCerCChiCKy: idk, whatever...
mcc x90: so, by process of elimination, we can infer that she is UNHAPPY
soCCerCChiCKy: lol
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90: i think because of this unhappiness she has insid eher
mcc x90: she makes some decisions that she regrets
mcc x90: and then becaucse she regrets these decisions
mcc x90: she feels guilty or silly or out of it
mcc x90: and this makes her more unhappy
mcc x90: until it builds up and she really messes up
mcc x90: shes more of a victim than anything else
soCCerCChiCKy: or she's just a mad person... her family screams at eachother a lot.... still, idk
mcc x90: see
soCCerCChiCKy: well, you don't know if all that is TRUE matt, it could be different
mcc x90: shes just randomly mad at people?
mcc x90: no that doesnt happen
mcc x90: sometimes its easier to look at things as random
mcc x90:but they arent
mcc x90: they obviously make sense to sarah
soCCerCChiCKy: idc anymore, she obviously doesnt want to be my firned so i'm not supposed to know anything (according to her) so.. whatever.... but still even all of aj's friends and Ryan Muondand them don't know what is wrong with me for her to hate me so much
mcc x90: i dont know
mcc x90: like i said
soCCerCChiCKy: exaclty, idk lol
mcc x90: shes probably unhappy
mcc x90: and you're probably not really at fault
mcc x90: she proably isnteither though
mcc x90: something is upsetiting her, and until she levels with herself
mcc x90: shes not going to stop
soCCerCChiCKy: ok, but is all of your predictions right about how badly she talks about me ... let a lone to my Friends?
mcc x90: predicitons?
mcc x90: she proably talks bad about you to your friends becaus eshe's unhappy
mcc x90: *because she's
soCCerCChiCKy: ok... so shes unhappy... i'll keep that inmind
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90:its proabbly true
soCCerCChiCKy: yea maybe
mcc x90: i bet something is bothering her
soCCerCChiCKy: but normal people dont always lash out at random people for the littlest things tho...
mcc x90:no they dont
mcc x90:but people who have something bothering them and are unhappy do
soCCerCChiCKy: noo, sarahs just special and only she can do that
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90: dont be mad at her
soCCerCChiCKy: and get away with it like she is
mcc x90: more anger wont stop the anger
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90:let it go, if you want to stop the fighting, try and help her with what's making her unhappy
mcc x90:THATS the only way to stop it, i think
soCCerCChiCKy: wouldn't u be mad if your good friend suddenely turned on you andtreated you like crap and talks about you behind your back... and sometimes to oyour own boyfriend (n ur case girlfriend)
mcc x90:haha
soCCerCChiCKy: im not fighting tho.. im letting her walk all over me matt..
mcc x90: thats the problem
mcc x90: dont get walked on
mcc x90:get out of the way
mcc x90: and attack the situation from a new angle
mcc x90: and in a diffrent way
mcc x90: lol, kempo 101
soCCerCChiCKy: and she even started something in front of my parents and they're mad that i didn't throw her out right then and there... i keep giving her second cchanses
soCCerCChiCKy: chances**
mcc x90: yeah
mcc x90:holding her at fault doesnt help you or her
mcc x90: or end the fighting
soCCerCChiCKy: ok.. so it's not her fault she ruined a friendship, made my parents hate her, made people look at her like she's gonna explode any minute, or hurting my feeling pretty badly... no nother fault at all
mcc x90:its true
soCCerCChiCKy: you see where im coming from?
mcc x90: she did make the decisions'
mcc x90: that caused all those problems
mcc x90: and i agree
mcc x90:but she had her own motives for ding that, and im sure it seemed like the best thing for her to do at the time
mcc x90: eevn though it wasnt
mcc x90: holding her at fault for those bad decisions she made and letting yourself get worked up over it doesnt help your situation or her situation, though
mcc x90: *ding=doing haha
mcc x90: thats my take on the situation
soCCerCChiCKy: yea... i know but it really hurt my feeling
mcc x90: shvatevs
mcc x90: im sorry
soCCerCChiCKy: lol
mcc x90: thats rough
mcc x90: :\
soCCerCChiCKy: anyway.. new subject!
mcc x90: yeah
mcc x90: when is that take home test due for ms murphy
soCCerCChiCKy: today...
This is a conversation that I had online with him today... It's nothing important though...
mcc x90: did u hear what happened today?
soCCerCChiCKy: she is very unkind and unnessesary to me... no what happened today
mcc x90: well
mcc x90: she was playing saxophone
mcc x90: and i asked her
mcc x90: politely
mcc x90: niceley
soCCerCChiCKy: lol
mcc x90 sarah, could you please play your oboe
mcc x90: everyone can attest to the fact tha tI was extremely polite
mcc x90: and kind
mcc x90: but she like
mcc x90: wigged out
mcc x90: and was upset
mcc x90: and of course
mcc x90: amanda sotto
mcc x90: who was out of the room
mcc x90: comes back
mcc x90: sees her in the pet shop
mcc x90: and comes in and flips out on me
mcc x90: in front of everyone
mcc x90: for being mean to sarah
mcc x90: which i wasnt
mcc x90: she ranted at me for a bit
mcc x90:until...everyone came and told her she was wrong
mcc x90: and that i was rle nice to sarahh
mcc x90: and now everything is ok
mcc x90:idk why sarah got so upset, she mustve been having a abd day
soCCerCChiCKy:sarah hates too many people for the stupidest reasons... i have to tell u what she's been ddoing to me.. but i wont now b/c its hard to type it all haha
mcc x90:lol
mcc x90: ok, well when and if you wanna talk to someone
mcc x90: im here
soCCerCChiCKy: no, she's a bitch to everyone when she doesnt get her day.. and she ALWAYS has bad days... 8 days a week... yes 8 days
mcc x90: lol
soCCerCChiCKy: oh no, i'll tell u how 2 faced she is.. but in person lol
mcc x90: im sure its not that bad
mcc x90: she jsut makes bad decisions sometimes
mcc x90: and i think she regrets them, and thats why she gets so worked up
mcc x90: i dont dislike her for it
mcc x90: i feel bad for her, it obviously makes her unhappy
mcc x90: she does make alot of problems for people though
mcc x90: like when she got aj mad at me at hofstra lol
soCCerCChiCKy:brb phone
mcc x90: i could tell that was gunna get out of hand, i jumped on the fone and handled that right away
mcc x90: and during volleyball
mcc x90: gah
mcc x90:but its ok
mcc x90: she just makes mistakes sometimes
soCCerCChiCKy: trust me, she talks so much shit behind my back.. and she flipped out on me in band yesterday AFTER asking me to go to her house on sat. and was all nice and peachy keen. .... she cursed me out for asking her if what aj said was true about all the hickys on her neck... she says "WTF do you HAVE to know everything? just shut the hell up"
soCCerCChiCKy: mad sometimes??
mcc x90: yeah
mcc x90: well, she probably has alot on her plate
mcc x90: people can act strangely like that when they're unhappy
mcc x90: i dont really think i can blame her
soCCerCChiCKy: and everyone tells me that she doesnt like me and that she never wants to talk to me, BUT she asks me to hang out with her?? and faith said that she says she only likes me sometimes, sorry that's not goig to happen to me
soCCerCChiCKy: why can't u blame her? whats been so wrong?
mcc x90: what do you mean
mcc x90: i dont want to be angry at her
mcc x90: so im not
mcc x90: ;]
mcc x90: i cant be mad at people, it gives me nightmares and insomnia
mcc x90: :P
soCCerCChiCKy: i know.... i mean what's wrong?? you keep saying that she has a lot on her plate... like something terrible just happened
mcc x90: i dont know if anything happened
mcc x90: i didnt hear anything in particular
soCCerCChiCKy: o ok
mcc x90: but i assume shes unhappy about something
mcc x90: because of the way she acts
mcc x90: she doesnt respond to things like mos happy people would
soCCerCChiCKy: idk, whatever...
mcc x90: so, by process of elimination, we can infer that she is UNHAPPY
soCCerCChiCKy: lol
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90: i think because of this unhappiness she has insid eher
mcc x90: she makes some decisions that she regrets
mcc x90: and then becaucse she regrets these decisions
mcc x90: she feels guilty or silly or out of it
mcc x90: and this makes her more unhappy
mcc x90: until it builds up and she really messes up
mcc x90: shes more of a victim than anything else
soCCerCChiCKy: or she's just a mad person... her family screams at eachother a lot.... still, idk
mcc x90: see
soCCerCChiCKy: well, you don't know if all that is TRUE matt, it could be different
mcc x90: shes just randomly mad at people?
mcc x90: no that doesnt happen
mcc x90: sometimes its easier to look at things as random
mcc x90:but they arent
mcc x90: they obviously make sense to sarah
soCCerCChiCKy: idc anymore, she obviously doesnt want to be my firned so i'm not supposed to know anything (according to her) so.. whatever.... but still even all of aj's friends and Ryan Muondand them don't know what is wrong with me for her to hate me so much
mcc x90: i dont know
mcc x90: like i said
soCCerCChiCKy: exaclty, idk lol
mcc x90: shes probably unhappy
mcc x90: and you're probably not really at fault
mcc x90: she proably isnteither though
mcc x90: something is upsetiting her, and until she levels with herself
mcc x90: shes not going to stop
soCCerCChiCKy: ok, but is all of your predictions right about how badly she talks about me ... let a lone to my Friends?
mcc x90: predicitons?
mcc x90: she proably talks bad about you to your friends becaus eshe's unhappy
mcc x90: *because she's
soCCerCChiCKy: ok... so shes unhappy... i'll keep that inmind
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90:its proabbly true
soCCerCChiCKy: yea maybe
mcc x90: i bet something is bothering her
soCCerCChiCKy: but normal people dont always lash out at random people for the littlest things tho...
mcc x90:no they dont
mcc x90:but people who have something bothering them and are unhappy do
soCCerCChiCKy: noo, sarahs just special and only she can do that
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90: dont be mad at her
soCCerCChiCKy: and get away with it like she is
mcc x90: more anger wont stop the anger
mcc x90: lol
mcc x90:let it go, if you want to stop the fighting, try and help her with what's making her unhappy
mcc x90:THATS the only way to stop it, i think
soCCerCChiCKy: wouldn't u be mad if your good friend suddenely turned on you andtreated you like crap and talks about you behind your back... and sometimes to oyour own boyfriend (n ur case girlfriend)
mcc x90:haha
soCCerCChiCKy: im not fighting tho.. im letting her walk all over me matt..
mcc x90: thats the problem
mcc x90: dont get walked on
mcc x90:get out of the way
mcc x90: and attack the situation from a new angle
mcc x90: and in a diffrent way
mcc x90: lol, kempo 101
soCCerCChiCKy: and she even started something in front of my parents and they're mad that i didn't throw her out right then and there... i keep giving her second cchanses
soCCerCChiCKy: chances**
mcc x90: yeah
mcc x90:holding her at fault doesnt help you or her
mcc x90: or end the fighting
soCCerCChiCKy: ok.. so it's not her fault she ruined a friendship, made my parents hate her, made people look at her like she's gonna explode any minute, or hurting my feeling pretty badly... no nother fault at all
mcc x90:its true
soCCerCChiCKy: you see where im coming from?
mcc x90: she did make the decisions'
mcc x90: that caused all those problems
mcc x90: and i agree
mcc x90:but she had her own motives for ding that, and im sure it seemed like the best thing for her to do at the time
mcc x90: eevn though it wasnt
mcc x90: holding her at fault for those bad decisions she made and letting yourself get worked up over it doesnt help your situation or her situation, though
mcc x90: *ding=doing haha
mcc x90: thats my take on the situation
soCCerCChiCKy: yea... i know but it really hurt my feeling
mcc x90: shvatevs
mcc x90: im sorry
soCCerCChiCKy: lol
mcc x90: thats rough
mcc x90: :\
soCCerCChiCKy: anyway.. new subject!
mcc x90: yeah
mcc x90: when is that take home test due for ms murphy
soCCerCChiCKy: today...
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